bismillah..
straight to the point je,.. truth is, at this very moment, i'm very frustrated w some people.
kenapa manusia suka menilai dan menghukum tanpa usul periksa? lumrah manusia? is it a good enough justification?
a quick question: perlukah seseorang itu menjelaskan keberadaannya atau tindakannya atau atau setiap watak dalam hidupnya atau susun atur perjalanan hayatnya kepada orang-orang yang dirasakannya tidak terlibat secara langsung atau tidak langsung dengan perkara-perkara tersebut di atas?
lepas tu if tak explain, start la nak stigma kat orang. okay, tak patut cakap camni but i'm merely expressing my disappointment. it happened, dengan anggapan-anggapan yg melukakan. tak baek kan? kan Allah suruh bersangka baik antara satu sama lain. just imagine, if you were in the same shoes. sedih kan if orang buat sangkaan buruk kat korang? sedangkan reality yang berlaku pun is not very nice and is cubaan enough for the person. have pity for the poor, sbb may be he already have enough things on his plate before other people start adding more junks in there.
so people, please please please, i mintak, stop assuming things. if nak tau something about other people's private life, just go straight to the person and ask. if you are offered the truth about what you've been dying to know, that's grant. but if the person refuses to tell, tu hak dia kan? it's one's secret for one to tell. tak susah kan to at least respect that? it's not like you're gonna die or something bad's gonna happen to you if you tau pun pasal tu. or could you reverse the catastrophe and compensate for it if you know the truth about it? ingatlah curiousity kills the cat. so nak jadi cat tu ke?
i know there's a very fine line between caring and menyibuk. how to care without menyibuk and how to tak menyibuk when caring. to me, it's simple. if the person wants space, bagi je la. if he wants time, pun bagi je. not that the world will be destroyed tomorrow if you at least give them that pun kan? you may convey that you will always be there should he feel the need to talk or seek help. boleh kan macam tu?
tired of explaining myself to people yg xde kaitan langsung pun dalam my life. hello, you all menanggung kesakitan ke, or patah kaki atau kena masuk hospital if i do something without your knowledge and consent?
wallahualam.
semoga Allah mengurniakan kesabaran dan kekuatan utk kita mengharungi hidup penuh cabaran ini. dan semoga kita lebih sibuk memberi kerja kepada malaikat raqib utk mencatit amal-amal kebajikan yang kita lakukan, daripada mengisi masa menjaga tepi kain orang lain.
p/s: some people say i am a very private person. honestly i am not too sure of that myself. but please people, i need space n time to breathe. i tak kacau orang so please orang, jangan kacau i.
straight to the point je,.. truth is, at this very moment, i'm very frustrated w some people.
kenapa manusia suka menilai dan menghukum tanpa usul periksa? lumrah manusia? is it a good enough justification?
a quick question: perlukah seseorang itu menjelaskan keberadaannya atau tindakannya atau atau setiap watak dalam hidupnya atau susun atur perjalanan hayatnya kepada orang-orang yang dirasakannya tidak terlibat secara langsung atau tidak langsung dengan perkara-perkara tersebut di atas?
lepas tu if tak explain, start la nak stigma kat orang. okay, tak patut cakap camni but i'm merely expressing my disappointment. it happened, dengan anggapan-anggapan yg melukakan. tak baek kan? kan Allah suruh bersangka baik antara satu sama lain. just imagine, if you were in the same shoes. sedih kan if orang buat sangkaan buruk kat korang? sedangkan reality yang berlaku pun is not very nice and is cubaan enough for the person. have pity for the poor, sbb may be he already have enough things on his plate before other people start adding more junks in there.
so people, please please please, i mintak, stop assuming things. if nak tau something about other people's private life, just go straight to the person and ask. if you are offered the truth about what you've been dying to know, that's grant. but if the person refuses to tell, tu hak dia kan? it's one's secret for one to tell. tak susah kan to at least respect that? it's not like you're gonna die or something bad's gonna happen to you if you tau pun pasal tu. or could you reverse the catastrophe and compensate for it if you know the truth about it? ingatlah curiousity kills the cat. so nak jadi cat tu ke?
i know there's a very fine line between caring and menyibuk. how to care without menyibuk and how to tak menyibuk when caring. to me, it's simple. if the person wants space, bagi je la. if he wants time, pun bagi je. not that the world will be destroyed tomorrow if you at least give them that pun kan? you may convey that you will always be there should he feel the need to talk or seek help. boleh kan macam tu?
tired of explaining myself to people yg xde kaitan langsung pun dalam my life. hello, you all menanggung kesakitan ke, or patah kaki atau kena masuk hospital if i do something without your knowledge and consent?
wallahualam.
semoga Allah mengurniakan kesabaran dan kekuatan utk kita mengharungi hidup penuh cabaran ini. dan semoga kita lebih sibuk memberi kerja kepada malaikat raqib utk mencatit amal-amal kebajikan yang kita lakukan, daripada mengisi masa menjaga tepi kain orang lain.
p/s: some people say i am a very private person. honestly i am not too sure of that myself. but please people, i need space n time to breathe. i tak kacau orang so please orang, jangan kacau i.
